Doja Cat is making headlines again—and this time, it’s not for her music.
The Grammy-winning rapper and singer behind hits like “Say So” and “Woman” has found herself at the center of a heated online debate after revealing she felt “manhandled” by a fan during a recent interaction. What looked like a light-hearted moment in a now-viral video is being painted in a very different light by the Planet Her star.
“Bottom line is I’ll smile at you, but it doesn’t mean I fck w you,” Doja posted on X (formerly Twitter) before deleting the post. “Don’t touch me and manhandle me when you don’t even fckin know me. iykyk.”
“Didn’t Even Know My Name”—Doja Speaks Out
In her now-deleted posts, Doja Cat didn’t hold back. She described the interaction as overly aggressive and disrespectful, emphasizing that the fan had no personal relationship with her yet felt entitled to physical contact, including kisses on the cheek.
“I honestly think I need to stand up for myself in the moment sometimes,” she added. “And he didn’t even know my f*ckin name to be touching me and kissing me on my face like that. It’s crazy.”
While the video showed smiles, fans now wonder whether those expressions were forced. The post has ignited a firestorm online—splitting fans into two camps: those defending the star’s right to set boundaries, and others accusing her of being disrespectful toward fans.
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“Threw That Musty A** Shirt Away”—Doja Drags Fan Merch
It didn’t stop there.
The fan in question gave Doja a t-shirt off his own back during their meeting—a gesture he says was meant to promote a new clothing line he was launching. But Doja Cat was not impressed.
She followed up her initial tweet, writing:
“I threw that musty a** shirt away.”
The fan, in response, posted a TikTok defending himself. He claimed he was completely unaware she was uncomfortable and was simply trying to support his brand. Then, in what seemed like an attempt to capitalize on the viral moment, he launched a new capsule of t-shirts emblazoned with the phrase “Musty A Shirt.”**
Now, what started as a social interaction has snowballed into a full-on digital spectacle—complete with merch wars, celebrity clapbacks, and cancel culture chatter.
Fans React: “We Ain’t Forget Her Hateful Tweets…”
Social media lit up as fans and critics alike voiced their opinions on X, TikTok, and Instagram. While many supported Doja for defending her personal space, others dredged up her past controversies, including past tweets deemed offensive by some communities.
“Well first issue is being a fan of Doja Cat to start with,” one user wrote. “She has some bops but she’s been openly telling y’all she’s a genuinely disgusting horrific person for like a decade now.”
Another wrote:
“F*ck Doja Cat, that ignorant racist a**. We ain’t forget her hateful tweets towards Arabs and other ppl. Now she disrespecting a fan and y’all blaming HIM? Nah.”
These comments reignited ongoing skepticism around Doja Cat’s attitude toward fans, dating back to previous incidents where she appeared to distance herself from her own fanbase, sometimes even mocking them online.
This Isn’t Doja’s First Fan Controversy
Doja Cat has a complicated relationship with her fans. In 2023, she drew backlash after saying her fans were “weird” for naming themselves Kittenz. When fans expressed disappointment, she doubled down—insisting she didn’t need fan validation.
“If you call yourself a ‘Kitten’ or f*cking whatever, that means you need to get off your phone and get a job and help your parents with the house,” she wrote at the time.
Some applauded her for calling out toxic fandom culture, while others accused her of biting the hand that feeds her.
Celebrity Boundaries vs. Fan Expectations—Where’s the Line?
This incident adds fuel to an ongoing conversation about parasocial relationships—the often blurry dynamic between celebrities and their fans. While fans may feel a deep connection to stars, real-world interactions require consent and respect—especially in physical spaces.
“Just because someone is famous doesn’t mean they owe fans physical affection,” one user commented. “She has every right to feel violated if someone touches her without consent.”
Yet others feel celebrities—especially ones in pop culture—owe a level of openness to fans who have propelled their careers.
It’s a complex issue—and Doja Cat seems to have drawn a firm boundary.
Meanwhile, Music is Still on the Way
Despite the drama, Doja Cat continues to tease new music.
She recently confirmed that her next album will be titled “Vie”, and fans are anticipating a new era that might be even more boundary-pushing than her last. Whether the controversy helps or hurts her brand remains to be seen, but if there’s one thing Doja Cat knows how to do—it’s keep people talking.
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