Sharay Hayes — an exotic dancer known by the stage name “The Punisher” — has issued a heartfelt public apology to singer Cassie Ventura, following explosive testimony linking him to disturbing encounters during her relationship with Sean “Diddy” Combs.
“I Had No Idea She Was Suffering”
In a recent CNN interview, Hayes expressed deep remorse for any pain Cassie endured, admitting he was unaware that she was allegedly being blackmailed and coerced into participating in so-called “freak-offs” — group sex encounters that she has described as abusive and traumatizing.
“At the time, I had no idea she was having a bad experience,” Hayes said. “To find out now that she was being threatened and forced — it hurts. I wouldn’t have taken part if I had known.”
Testified in Diddy Criminal Case
Hayes took the stand in the ongoing criminal trial involving Diddy, where he discussed his participation in private parties arranged by the hip-hop mogul, some involving Cassie. He previously testified that he never witnessed anything he considered illegal.
However, after Cassie revealed in her testimony that she was being blackmailed and manipulated into these encounters, Hayes says his perspective has shifted drastically.
Haunted by the Past
Hayes — who was raised by his single mother and grandmother — says he now finds it difficult to live with the idea that he may have unknowingly contributed to a woman’s abuse.
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“It’s tough to sit with the idea that I may have been part of something that hurt her,” he said. “I stand by women, and I’m deeply sorry to Cassie.”
Hayes Speaks Out in Memoir
Sharay “The Punisher” Hayes has also authored a book chronicling his 30-year career as a top-level exotic dancer. In the book, he includes several stories involving high-profile clients, including Diddy and Cassie. He now says that reflecting on those moments is painful and he’s reconsidering how he portrayed them.
Why This Matters
The apology comes amid growing scrutiny of Sean “Diddy” Combs, who faces serious allegations from multiple women. Cassie Ventura’s lawsuit and testimony have reignited discussions about power, coercion, and abuse in the entertainment industry.
Hayes’ public apology may not absolve him of past actions, but it marks a rare moment of accountability from someone who was once inside the inner circle.
Key Takeaways:
- Sharay Hayes apologizes to Cassie Ventura for his role in alleged “freak-offs”
- Claims he was unaware she was being blackmailed or coerced
- Expresses deep regret after hearing her testimony in court
- Says he was raised to respect women and feels remorseful
- Wrote a book detailing his experiences in the entertainment world, including those with Diddy and Cassie
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