Former Love Island USA contestant Yulissa Escobar is baring her soul after a wave of vicious backlash over her past use of a racial slur—revealing that the controversy has escalated far beyond accountability and into a torrent of online abuse that’s threatening her mental health.
The reality star, who was booted from the hit dating series earlier this year, took to social media to share dozens of hateful direct messages she claims she’s received in recent weeks. The messages include death threats, vile insults about her appearance, and even people urging her to “kill yourself.”
“This Isn’t Helping Me Grow”
Yulissa admitted she was wrong for casually using the N-word on past podcast appearances, issuing an apology and vowing to educate herself. But in a raw and emotional Instagram post, she explained that the daily flood of hate isn’t fostering growth—it’s “full-blown cyberbullying.”
“I understand people wanting to hold me accountable, but this… this is destroying me,” she wrote. “These messages aren’t about helping me do better—they’re meant to tear me down.”
The 24-year-old went on to say the abuse has taken a serious toll on her mental health, adding that she’s struggling to cope with the constant barrage of negativity.
The Scandal That Sparked the Firestorm
Fans of Love Island USA were quick to dig into Yulissa’s social media history after her appearance on the show. Clips from old podcast episodes surfaced, where Yulissa casually dropped the N-word in conversation. The backlash was swift, and producers removed her from the villa amid mounting public outrage.
In her initial apology, Yulissa said there’s “no racist bone in my body” and admitted her ignorance about the weight and history of the slur. She promised to unlearn harmful behaviors and educate herself moving forward.
Not Alone: Other Castmates Facing Backlash
Yulissa isn’t the only former Islander caught in controversy. Fellow contestant Cierra Ortega is also facing intense online hate after fans uncovered her past use of an anti-Asian slur. Like Yulissa, Cierra claims she’s received death threats and toxic messages since leaving the show.
When Accountability Turns Toxic
While many agree public figures should be held accountable for offensive behavior, critics say the tidal wave of hate Yulissa and Cierra are experiencing crosses a line.
“We can call out harmful actions without resorting to dehumanizing people,” one fan commented in her defense.
Experts warn that cancel culture often veers into cyberbullying, especially when accountability spirals into threats of violence and harassment.
Yulissa’s Plea for Compassion
For now, Yulissa is focusing on her mental health and trying to rise above the noise.
“I made mistakes, and I’ll own them. But I’m still a human being. The hate has to stop,” she said.
She ended her post by urging her followers to be mindful of the real people behind reality TV personas.
What’s Your Take?
Do you think Yulissa deserves a second chance, or are fans right to hold her feet to the fire? Share your thoughts in the comments—and stay tuned for more updates from Love Island USA.