Muni Long is clearing the air about her marriage to longtime partner Raysean Hairston, after months of online chatter suggesting the two had quietly split.
During a heartfelt sit-down with REVOLT at the 2025 ESSENCE Festival, the Hrs and Hrs singer addressed the rumors head-on—and revealed how public perception has twisted her words.
“One thing I find interesting in this day and age is how… I never said that. The truth doesn’t matter anymore,” she shared candidly. “Public perception is everything, and once a narrative is decided upon, it’s really like [shrugs].”
The Grammy-winning artist, who has been married to Hairston for nine years, admitted the speculation left her frustrated, especially as she battles Lupus, an autoimmune disease that has reshaped her priorities.
???? Did They Split? Muni Long Says “Not So Fast”
The relationship chatter first began last summer when Long gave an emotional interview to The Cruz Show, where she appeared to hint at a breakup:
“I’ve been married for nine years… it just didn’t work out, you know?”
Fans quickly assumed the couple had gone their separate ways, sparking widespread discussion online. But now, Long is clarifying her words and urging fans not to take snippets out of context.
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“What I said was, ‘I can’t wake up next to somebody every day that’s always in a bad mood, and I’mma have to move on.’”
She continued:
“I’m paraphrasing, but the gist of it is, I only want to be around empowering, uplifting, positive, motivating, in-alignment people, places, and things. And if you’re not that, I feel like either I’m gonna walk away or you’re gonna fizzle out of the equation, because I just decided no more.”
????♀️ Putting Her Health First: “You’re Not Gonna Stress Me Out”
As she navigates life with Lupus, Long says she’s fiercely protective of her peace.
“You’re not gonna keep stressing me out. Not only because I have a physical reason, but it also affects me. It affects my health,” she explained.
The R&B star, who recently welcomed her first child—a baby boy—says she’s focusing on joy and gratitude in this chapter of her life.
“Mentally, I want to have fun. I want to enjoy these blessings. I have a beautiful baby boy. I never said that [about splitting], guys. I don’t know where y’all got that from.”
???? Fans React: “Protect Your Peace, Sis”
The internet lit up with reactions to Long’s comments:
- “Muni said what needed to be said. Energy vampires gotta go.” – @SoulfulSundays
- “She’s married, y’all just be running with narratives ????” – @RnBQueen
- “Lupus is no joke. Protect your peace, sis.” – @WellnessMama
- “So happy she’s setting the record straight and focusing on her health.” – @EssenceFestUpdates
???? A New Chapter for Muni Long
With her career soaring and a growing family, Muni Long is embracing balance and boundaries.
While she hasn’t confirmed whether she and Hairston are still together romantically, her message is clear: she’s done explaining herself to the public.
???? TPR Takeaway
Whether Muni Long and Raysean Hairston are working things out or not, the Made For Me singer is determined to live life on her own terms—and fans are here for it.
???? What do YOU think? Is Muni subtly confirming a split—or is this just a case of social media twisting her words? Drop your thoughts below!
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