After nearly five years of silence, Tobey Maguire is finally making a legal move in his long-stalled divorce from Jennifer Meyer—and he’s asking for joint custody of their son.
Yes, you read that right. The Spider-Man star has officially responded to his estranged wife’s 2020 divorce petition, despite the pair having separated almost nine years ago. Now, the ultra-private actor is stepping into the spotlight—but on his own terms.
Tobey Maguire Asks for Joint Custody
According to new court documents obtained by TMZ, Tobey filed his response on Wednesday, nearly five years after Jennifer Meyer initially filed for divorce back in October 2020.
In the paperwork, Tobey is requesting joint legal and physical custody of their 16-year-old son, Otis, signaling his desire to remain actively involved in his teenage son’s life.
He also notes that any decisions regarding spousal support or child support should be handled privately through mediation—not a public courtroom. And perhaps not surprisingly, Tobey points out that the couple signed a prenuptial agreement, likely outlining the financial side of their separation in advance.
A Divorce That Took Almost a Decade
To say this divorce has been slow-moving would be an understatement.
Jennifer Meyer, a celebrity jewelry designer, filed for divorce in 2020, but the couple actually separated back in 2016—nearly a decade ago. At the time, they released a joint statement explaining they had “mutually decided to separate” after nine years of marriage.
Despite the early announcement, neither party rushed into legal proceedings, leading to years of radio silence. Tobey, known for keeping a low profile, seemingly avoided the spotlight—and the courtroom—until now.
What About Their Daughter?
The couple also shares a daughter, Ruby, who turned 18 in November of last year. Since she is now legally an adult, there are no custody arrangements needed for her in the divorce proceedings.
With only their son Otis still a minor, custody and co-parenting responsibilities now remain the key legal focus moving forward.
Jennifer Meyer Has Moved On—And Then Some
While Tobey took his time responding to the divorce filing, Jennifer Meyer hasn’t exactly been waiting around.
Last year, she confirmed her engagement to billionaire heir Geoffrey Ogunlesi, a high-powered executive from the music world who reportedly has deep ties in the industry. Jennifer and Geoffrey made their relationship Instagram-official in early 2023, and fans have since spotted her wearing a massive engagement ring.
“I’m the happiest I’ve ever been,” Jennifer reportedly told friends during her engagement celebration.
“Geoffrey is everything I could’ve dreamed of.”
In contrast, Tobey has remained largely under the radar romantically. Though he’s been linked to a few models and influencers over the years, he’s yet to go public with any serious relationships.
Hollywood’s Slowest Divorce?
This isn’t just a celebrity split—it’s one of the slowest-moving divorces in Hollywood history.
From separation in 2016 to Jennifer’s official filing in 2020, and now Tobey’s response in 2025, the process has stretched out across nearly a full decade.
Some speculate the delay was due to the couple’s desire to protect their kids’ privacy. Others believe both parties were just focused on their respective careers and chose to keep things amicable behind the scenes.
But fans couldn’t help but notice the timing of Tobey’s response—filing just months after Jennifer’s engagement announcement. Coincidence or closure?
Let’s Rewind: The Rise and Fall of Tobey & Jennifer
Tobey Maguire and Jennifer Meyer first met in 2003 and tied the knot in 2007. For years, they were seen as one of Hollywood’s quieter, more grounded couples.
Jennifer, the daughter of Universal Studios exec Ronald Meyer, built a successful career of her own with her celebrity-favorite jewelry line, worn by stars like Jennifer Aniston, Taylor Swift, and Meghan Markle.
Tobey, of course, rocketed to fame with his role as Peter Parker in Sam Raimi’s Spider-Man trilogy—a role that turned him into a global icon in the early 2000s.
Together, they seemed like the ultimate low-key Hollywood power couple… until they weren’t.
Where They Stand Now
With Tobey finally responding to the divorce after years of public silence, it looks like the couple may finally be ready to close this chapter for good.
If both parties follow through with private mediation, as suggested in Tobey’s court docs, this could mean a smooth (if late) finish to what’s already been an ultra-slow burn.
And with Jennifer planning a future with a new fiancé, the timing couldn’t be more fitting.
Fans React: “Not Tobey Filing 5 Years Later 💀”
Naturally, social media couldn’t resist reacting to the headline.
“Tobey finally responding to the divorce like it was a group project due in 2020 😭”
—@celebtea_unfiltered on X
“Jennifer’s ENGAGED now and Tobey’s like ‘oh yeah, that divorce thing.’”
—@hotmesshollywood
“He’s still Peter Parker in my eyes—but man, Peter was faster at saving MJ than Tobey is at filing papers.”
—@nostalgiabinge
Some fans praised the couple for keeping things drama-free, while others joked that it’s the most low-energy divorce in Tinseltown history.
📝 Here’s a Quick Recap:
- Tobey Maguire just filed his divorce response, nearly 5 years after Jennifer Meyer filed in 2020
- The couple separated back in 2016—nine years ago
- Tobey is requesting joint custody of their 16-year-old son, Otis
- He’s seeking to handle support issues through mediation
- Their daughter Ruby is now 18, so no custody discussions are required for her
- Jennifer is now engaged to billionaire Geoffrey Ogunlesi
- The couple had a prenup, which could make settlement smoother
🗣 What do you think—Was Tobey taking his time or avoiding the inevitable? Should Hollywood divorces be faster, or is this slow-and-steady style the new norm? Let us know in the comments!
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