Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are deep into wedding planning, but fans hoping to see a romantic first dance may be surprised — the couple has officially decided to skip it.
During a candid chat on the “Table Manners” podcast with Jessie and Lennie Ware, the multi-talented singer and actress revealed that a first dance isn’t in the cards — and it’s not because of relationship drama or an unconventional streak. Selena simply admitted that the spotlight makes her shy, and the idea of having all eyes on her for a solo dance with Benny feels a little too overwhelming.
“I think I’d be embarrassed,” she shared, laughing, as Benny chimed in and agreed: “She’s just a little shy.”
But There Will Be a Special Dance… With Her Grandpa
While the traditional couple’s dance is off the schedule, Selena has a heartfelt moment planned. She revealed she’s organizing a special dance with her maternal grandfather, who wasn’t able to walk her mom down the aisle during a spontaneous Las Vegas wedding years ago.
This sentimental moment will be Selena’s way of honoring him — and bringing family into the spotlight in her own authentic way.
The Hora Will Bring the Party — Benny’s Jewish Heritage Takes the Floor
While Selena may be skipping a slow dance, don’t expect the reception to be low-energy. The pop star confirmed the wedding will feature a lively Hora dance — the traditional Jewish celebration where guests are lifted on chairs and danced around the room.
It’s a nod to Benny Blanco’s Jewish roots, and it sounds like the couple is fully embracing the joy and tradition of blending their cultural backgrounds.
Their Love Story So Far
Selena and Benny went public in July 2023, and have been inseparable ever since. Their relationship quickly turned serious, leading to a romantic engagement in December 2024. Fans have loved watching their low-key yet affectionate bond unfold — a refreshing change of pace from high-drama Hollywood romances.
What to Expect at Selena & Benny’s Wedding
While the couple is staying tight-lipped about many details, here’s what we know so far:
- No first dance for the bride and groom
- A heartfelt dance with Selena’s grandpa
- The Hora will be a highlight of the reception
- The vibe will be intimate and joyful, rather than flashy
Selena continues to win hearts with her vulnerability, and fans are already swooning over the personal touches she’s bringing to her wedding day.
