Ray J is making it clear that he is not ready to give up on his marriage to Princess Love.
The singer and reality TV star marked their 10-year anniversary Wednesday with an emotional social media message directed at his estranged wife, publicly saying that he does not want to proceed with their pending divorce.
Ray J reflected on the couple’s decade-long relationship, which began when they first met in 2013, while acknowledging the difficult years they have experienced together.
“I told you I don’t wanna get a divorce! We will get it right—Happy 10 years,” Ray J wrote.
The public plea comes after years of divorce filings, reconciliations and relationship turmoil that have kept the couple in the spotlight.
Now, Ray J appears to be asking for another chance.
Ray J used their 10-year milestone to publicly express his continued commitment to Princess Love.
In a social media post featuring a photo of Love, the singer reflected on the journey they have shared since meeting in 2013.
Rather than focusing only on the relationship’s difficult moments, Ray J emphasized the bond that has remained between them despite their problems becoming public.
He said the couple has learned to love each other “without conditions” through both prosperous and difficult periods.
“I’m grateful I can still talk to you, be your friend—stand beside you and protect the family we created,” Ray J wrote.
He then addressed the issue that has repeatedly threatened to bring their marriage to an end.
“I told you I don’t wanna get a divorce!” he wrote.
Ray J followed that declaration with an optimistic message: “We will get it right—Happy 10 years.”
The post amounts to a public expression of his desire to reconcile with Love, although it does not establish that the couple have formally called off their divorce proceedings.
As of Thursday morning, Princess Love had not publicly responded to Ray J’s anniversary message or his plea to stop the divorce process.
That leaves the couple’s current relationship status unclear beyond Ray J’s stated position.
The couple’s history makes the anniversary message particularly significant.
They have been together for more than a decade, married in 2016 and share two children.
Their relationship became a regular storyline on Love & Hip Hop: Hollywood, where viewers followed many of the highs and lows of their marriage.
The pair’s relationship has also been marked by repeated attempts to end their marriage legally before eventually reconciling.
Princess Love first filed for divorce from Ray J in May 2020.
Since then, the couple have gone through multiple divorce filings, with reconciliations occurring before the proceedings were finalized.
Their most recent filing came in 2024.
At the time, Love said they had reached the “difficult realization” that their paths had diverged.
She also emphasized mutual respect and a commitment to co-parenting.
That history makes Ray J’s latest statement notable because it shows that he does not appear ready to accept the end of the marriage.
Instead, he is publicly expressing a desire to repair the relationship.
Their marriage has also faced controversy outside the divorce proceedings.
In 2025, Ray J faced legal trouble following an incident in which he was arrested after allegedly brandishing a firearm during a livestream involving Love.
That episode added another layer to an already complicated relationship that has frequently played out in public.
Ray J and Princess Love’s relationship has lasted through multiple attempts to legally end their marriage.
That history makes their 10-year anniversary more than a simple social media milestone.
Ray J’s message shows that, at least from his side, the possibility of permanently ending the marriage remains something he does not want to accept.
His emphasis on friendship, family and standing beside Love also points to the importance he places on their connection beyond the legal status of their marriage.
Still, his public plea is only one side of the story.
Princess Love has not publicly responded to the message as of Thursday morning, meaning there is no indication yet that she shares Ray J’s desire to reconcile or halt the divorce.
Ray J’s message is ultimately about a relationship that has survived years of public scrutiny.
He acknowledged the difficult seasons but also focused on the fact that he and Love remain connected through their family and shared history.
His words suggest that, despite everything that has happened, he still sees a path forward.
Whether Princess Love feels the same way remains unknown.
For now, Ray J has put his position in public: he does not want the marriage to end.
Ray J has made his feelings unmistakable on their 10-year anniversary: he wants another chance with Princess Love and says he does not want a divorce. Whether she is ready to give the marriage another shot remains to be seen.
